If you have a picky eater at home, you know the daily challenge of finding foods they’ll actually eat without turning mealtime into a battle. My youngest daughter is the queen of picky eating, and every meal feels like a negotiation. Here’s how I’ve been navigating this tricky phase—and yes, it’s a phase (at least, that’s what I keep telling myself!).
Fruits Yes! Veggies No!
My daughter’s love for fruits knows no bounds. Strawberries, bananas, and apples are staples in our kitchen, and she’ll happily munch on them all day. But veggies? Not a chance. The moment she spots a green bean or broccoli floret, it’s game over.

Smoothies have been hit-or-miss. One day she’ll happily drink a spinach-packed fruit smoothie, and the next day she’ll push it away without a second glance. It’s all about trial and error, and I’ve learned to roll with her changing preferences. I’m still looking into trying zucchini muffins and carrot pancakes, but I’ve heard it’s a great way to incorporate veggies.
How Can I Decrease the Snacking?
Snacking is a major hurdle in our house. With my older daughter’s busy schedule, it’s sometimes easier to rely on quick snacks to keep everyone fed. However, I’ve found that using BentGo lunch boxes has been a lifesaver. These compartmentalized boxes allow me to pack balanced mini-meals with a variety of options. It’s been a great way to keep her interested in eating without over-relying on packaged snacks.

How Can I Incorporate Veggies in a Way They Don’t Notice?
This has been the ultimate challenge, but persistence is key. Sweet potato fries are my one consistent win, but beyond that, it’s tough to muster the energy to create something when there’s a good chance my little one will turn up her nose. I’m definitely looking for input here because I know—or at least hope—I’m not alone in this battle. With a Nutribullet at my disposal, I’m eager to find easy puree ideas that can help me sneak in those veggies!
Bread Head: Sourdough Adventures
In my quest to broaden her diet, I’ve leaned heavily into baking, especially sourdough. Making sourdough bread has been a fun, hands-on activity for the whole family. Plus, I’ve discovered ways to use the discard from my sourdough starter to create pancakes, crackers, and even pizza dough.
These homemade treats are a win-win. She’s more likely to eat something she helped create, and I get the satisfaction of knowing exactly what’s in her food. It’s a small but rewarding way to turn mealtime struggles into bonding moments.

No Milk! Yes on Yogurt and Sometimes Cheese
My daughter’s aversion to milk has been another curveball. While she won’t touch a glass of milk, she’s all in for yogurt (especially when it’s topped with a drizzle of honey or a handful of granola). She’ll also occasionally snack on cheese sticks or cubes of cheddar, so I try to capitalize on those moments by offering them alongside meals.
Celery with Peanut Butter: A Glimmer of Hope
One unexpected win has been celery sticks with peanut butter. For some reason, this combination has been a consistent hit. I’ve started using it as a gateway to introduce other raw veggies, like cucumber slices or bell pepper strips. While they haven’t fully won her over yet, she’s at least giving them a try—and that feels like progress.
Fun with Odd Containers
I’ve learned that sometimes the secret to getting her to eat is all in the presentation. Serving food in unexpected containers—like a cup or a muffin tin—has been surprisingly effective. She’s far more likely to eat carrot sticks when they’re neatly arranged in a colorful silicone muffin cup. Snacks like popcorn or fruit chunks served in a small mason jar or even a toy tea cup suddenly become much more exciting. This little trick has added an element of fun to mealtime and encouraged her to try new things.
Share Your Ideas!
Fellow mamas, I know I’m not alone in this picky eater journey. What are your go-to strategies for getting your kids to eat healthier without the drama? Share your tips, tricks, and recipes below. Let’s swap ideas and support each other through this mealtime madness!